A Stranger’s Last 3 Months to Live

When I met Xavier Romero in July of 2019, he'd been given 1 week left to live. He was suffering from a rare form of liver cancer and doctors had given up hope. After hearing his story, I knew I wanted to meet him. Little did I know Xavier would beat all the odds and that we would get to know each other and become brothers.
Over three months of getting to know him, he taught me about what it means to fight for your life, to love unconditionally and to appreciate every single breath. He always wanted to start a NO-gos channel and I told him that no matter what, his story would be told. He took comfort in that. Here is that story.
I know he's here with us. I know he's watching this video and smiling at these beautiful moments we got to spend with each other. I miss him and I know I'll see him again one day.
Thank you for watching. It means a lot to me and I know it means a lot to him.
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  1. Yes Theory

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    Grateful to have crossed paths with you Xavier, may you Rest In Peace

  2. RocioNicte

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    Yes Theory, you are awesome. Your videos are always uplifting; full of hope, love, and encouragement. I cried over all this video. I haven´t subscribed to any youtube channel in years, but you worth it. You are a glass of water on the desert (this vast space called youtube).

  3. Lilu Libelula

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    Julia Hall did he pass?😱

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  5. Memes are Very healthy

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    Wait has it been 3 months already

  6. Kill It

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    Why didnt you consult Dr Joe Dispenza?

  7. Rehaloli

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    im not even half way through and im about to cry omg.. he is an inspiration.

  8. Absolutely Fine

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    I just cried the whole video

  9. windu80

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    @Yes Theory I have a liver disease which is getting worse and can potentially progress into cancer. I have been told, if this happens, that a liver transplant could be an option. Do you know, in the case of Xavier, why a liver transplant wasn't considered? Thanks for your help

  10. imlike cocoon

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  11. Ellen Nymo

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    Omg luke too😭😭😭😭

  12. Małgorzata Marszałek

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    I'm starting to think Matt is an angel sent to Earth. And I don't even believe in God.

  13. SñG _

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    Rest in Peace

  14. Jbee Cuizon

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    This whole thing makes me cry, Luke is full of humanity salute you brother and Rest in peace brother Xavier.

  15. CREEPER_WITH_50,000_ SUBS

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    Hey my cousin is Rob Gronkowski I could try to contact him and get another vid for Xavier

  16. twixyy eh

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    This is just so sad, a 26 year old thats lived with cancer for about 5 years. You shouldn't die at that age. Rest in peace Xavier Romeo.

  17. twixyy eh

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    I Hope That You Rest In Peace Xaiver Romeo 1993-2019.

  18. Bjorn Alenvik

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  19. Super

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    RIP Xavier :(

  20. Moira Platt

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    This video didn’t allow me to stop crying it made me so sad 😞😢

  21. Spencer Kraus

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    Bro I love Luke's energy! That probably helped Xavier out a lot in those last moments.

  22. TheKittyCatGamer

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    This made me cry D: and he was only 26, this breaks my heart, especially sence the doctors just gave up. Im still crying, and in my heart, i will always be crying, for him.

  23. ñ ñ

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    Why must you always attack my heart Yes Theory?

  24. darkp4nther

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    Thank you Luke, you are the most amazing human being ever

  25. PruulKristiina

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    Oohhhh, BY FAR the most emotional and inspiring story you have portrayed in my opinion. Thank you, Xavier and Yes Theory! Wishing you all lots of love and joy of life!

  26. Eanna Walsh

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    RIP Xavier 😪😪😪😪😪

  27. Eckie Fleckie

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    This is the only video that’s ever made me cry. You guys are the best ❤️

  28. Pierre Meshreky

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    Honestly the amount of good this channel is doing is truly beyond words, this 30 minute episode shows us the world and the proper way to live in it, God bless you guys truly. Xavier what a man, it was just an honor to have watched a video of this righteous human being

  29. Sreenithi Ramgiri

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    i was crying this entire video

  30. Kevin Paulson

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    Literally cried :-(

  31. Quinn Lessard

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    you guys are incredible. wow. that one choked me up..

  32. FoxonFire27

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    R.I.P i could tell how amazing xavier was he was such as cool guy

  33. Jaslene Huerta

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    This video, I cannot describe it in words; One word I can say is ‘amazing’. Xavier has taught me that you have to push, and do your best until you achieve your goal. Luke has also had an affect on me due to his overflowing kindness; he pushed through and proved people wrong. The same thing with Xavier. Xavier had proved all those doctors wrong and was determined to keep on fighting even when he wanted to give up so badly. But his cousin was there for him to help him through all this fiasco. Xavier was, and is, a wonderful person that should be remembered as a hard-working spirit and determined fellow. If I were to be completely honest, this had me tearing up and crying exactly like a baby at the end. Luke had flown from Australia to go to Xavier’s residence; that made me feel deeply touched by the fact that he was willing to fly from his home that is across the world. Even if I didn’t know him and hear him in person for myself, Xavier sounded so wise and hard-working. This inspires me to keep on going; and never give up. My deepest condolences to Xavier’s family, may he Rest In Peace. ❤️

  34. Nick Carter

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    This was absolutely next level. Matt, doing what you did for Xavier.. it’s incredible. Everyone who helped with this, bill and Tom, Luke, you made this the best last 3 months he could have ever imagined. I have no more words. This channel is love. Thank you for everything you guys do. Rest In Peace Xavier, rest up. ✊

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  36. RocioNicte

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    Yes Theory, you are amazing. Your videos are always uplifting; full of hope, love, and encouragement. I cried over the whole video. I haven't subscribed to any youtube channels in years, but you worth it. You are a glass of water on the desert (this vast space called youtube).

  37. Gigant 5

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    Shame on the people that disliked this video

  38. Londyn Harris

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    I'm crying so much right now, thank you Yes Theory for constantly spreading your love and light and sharing these impactful stories

  39. Tom Hobbs

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    you killed that speech man

  40. Spense King exe

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    This truly hurts to see this, I have psoriasis and it is a skin disease I have had it for 3 or 4 years.

  41. Susie Sparkle

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    It’s videos like these that make me love you guys more. May his soul R.I.P.

  42. Alex Quintanilla

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    This is really sad for me. My grandma died a few years ago from cancer. She had been fighting for almost 10 years. Unfortunately i never got to spend that much time with her and the last time i ever saw her she couldn't even talk or smile. Its crazy how someone who was always so happy and uplifted could be brought that point. She suffered and i hope no one else goes through that. :(

  43. Duhft Dfjft

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    I love that y’all brought him back and he’s speaking Spanish. That’s what’s sup💯❤️

  44. Pink Tie Productions

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    What a fucking champion❤️

  45. kxsfera

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    "Only the good die young". Rest in peace beautiful soul...

  46. The Marsbar

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    It is so sad to me that the most outgoing of people are the people at life's end. We should all aspire to be like this throughout our daily lives. Fuck cancer.

  47. 8-bit viper

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    there not the heroes we expected but the heros we needed

  48. Pickle Wart

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    Lol all these sheep pretending they actually care. You came here to make yourselves feel like you understand life deeper or some other ulterior desire to make yourselves feel better. None of you care, none of you knew the man, you all assume he was always a good person. None of you sheep know anything or care, only people who knew him personally would. I'm here to make sure you all don't get to go on and live thinking otherwise to fulfill your own selfish desires from anothers death. Shame.

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  50. Devender Singh

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    I am not crying.. trust me..🙂

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  53. Yohai Dajurno

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    matt is the prove one man can make an great influance on others by mantel support

  54. Dan ger

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    rip xavier

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  56. Themis Thomassin

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    yes theory always makes my day i swear such good hearted guys

  57. Thomas Haider

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    Rest in peace❤️

  58. George Bliss

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    This video has made me realise what truly is important. I give my thoughts to Xavier's family. ❤️

  59. Aimee

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    Condolences to the family and may Xavier rest in peace. Man I should have had a box of tissues before watching, I literally was crying and then I rewatched it again and...you know what happened again Thank you so much for this, keep it up YES THEORY

  60. Monstedo

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    24:13 REJECTED

  61. E Squared

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    Monstedo yes, I’m Estefany. 😀

  62. Monstedo

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    @E Squared Oh yeah i see, are you the person in the video? Thanks.

  63. E Squared

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    Monstedo I actually said “it’s tough”

  64. Monstedo

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    @E Squared He hugged her then she said stop. pretty sad.

  65. E Squared

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    Monstedo explain? Lol

  66. The Big Oof

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    This guy is more than just a kind and helpful youtuber, he’s a life changer

  67. Zkombi

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    i started fucking crying!

  68. Akash Agnihotri

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    rip xavier ..

  69. NikoSicko

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    rip xavier

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